33 weeks pregnant tomorrow, how to deal with the stress(details are long)?

I can see how that would get annoying, and fast. Of course he can't hit you and the threats alone can get him into some serious problems especially because you're pregnant. You're right though, there isn't much you can do. Try to just stay away from him as much as possible or go outside and take in some air to calm your nerves. I wouldn't want my son around a person with bad hygiene to be honest. If he wants to carry him tell him he needs to wash his hands. You're the mom so what yo usay goes. Good luck.